Chaos
Cord

Welcome to chaoscord where we make discord servers! ChaosCord is currently home to three servers ChaosCord, The Estste and Lvcrative Desires. Our servers are currently 18+ and 21+ respectfully. Each of these servers are dedicated to self-promotion, bdsm, kink, and specifically, Financial domination. Join us, verify, and see what we're all about!

About

ChaosCord is a subset of The ChaosHive which focuses on providing merch, resources, and fun to the findom and femdom communities. It was started by Honeybee Deity after seeing a lack of spaces that prioritized not only on drains, sales, and competition but also having fun and exploring BDSM in a safe and knowledgable space.After many years, lots of trial and error, and countless hours pouring over various logs, documents, and community feedback, we believe we have made this a reality!The ChaosCord Discord servers are made with understanding that kink happens when people are educated and that a number of servers as of late are cropping up, but not functional because they don't hold the right things in mind. We worked to find that perfect balance between drains, cash flow, and fun to create these spaces that have games, social spaces, educational spaces, events, and more all in one cohesive way that doesn't feel too overwhelming.Each of our spaces require specific verification means as well to ensure that all members are 18+/21+ and no one is engaging with minors. Our findom focused server also has strict vetting to ensure that all parties are knowledgable about not only findom in an online sense (because, let's be real, a large population of Online findommes and finsubs are not!) but also the basics of BDSM and a bit more! This is to make sure you know what you're doing, but not just by regurgitating what's online, but what your understanding of safe kink is.If you are seeking out a space that is properly prepared to take care of its members, provide fun, and more, join us!

Partners

Most of our partnered servers are FEMDOM servers, but that require payment for kink services OR are FINDOM servers, which have specific requirements to remain as active participants in the server. When joining any of our servers, keep in mind that while WE DO CROSS VERIFY from partners, they reserve the right to not do so in return

JOINS
OPEN FOR ALL
OPEN FOR ALL
OPEN (DOMMES ONLY)
OPEN (SUBS ONLY)
APPLICATIONS OPEN/ WAITLIST

pet Haven

  SERVER TYPE    Femdom, Findom, Community
  SERVER RATIO    1:1 D:S
  HIGHLIGHTS    Community events, Flash Channel, Kink Channels
  LANGUAGE(S)    English
  TIMEZONE    PST, primarily
  ACCEPTING PARTNERS?    Yes
  HOW TO JOIN?    Apply, Age Verify

Domme Academy

  SERVER TYPE    Femdom, Findom, Community
  SERVER RATIO    Dominants only, no ratio
  HIGHLIGHTS    Resource Channels, Daily Discussion questions, and more
  LANGUAGE(S)    English
  TIMEZONE    EST, primarily
  ACCEPTING PARTNERS?    Yes
  HOW TO JOIN?    Apply, Age Verify, Waitlist

Elite Femdom

  SERVER TYPE    Femdom, Findom, Community
  SERVER RATIO    1:2 D:S
  HIGHLIGHTS    Community events, Flash Channel, Kink Channels, Exclusive Perks
  LANGUAGE(S)    English
  TIMEZONE    GMT, primarily
  ACCEPTING PARTNERS?    Yes
  HOW TO JOIN?    Apply, Age Verify, Waitlist

Findom Deluxe

  SERVER TYPE    Femdom, Findom, Community
  SERVER RATIO    376 Domme : 80 sub : 105 switch
  HIGHLIGHTS    Education Resources, Kink Channels, Dom/me, Sub, Switch Friendy
  LANGUAGE(S)    English
  TIMEZONE    EST
  ACCEPTING PARTNERS?    yes
  HOW TO JOIN?    age verify, apply

Submissive Haven

  SERVER TYPE    Community, Education, Submissives Only
  SERVER RATIO    Submissives Only, no ratio
  HIGHLIGHTS    Community events, Educational Resources, and more
  LANGUAGE(S)    English
  TIMEZONE    GMT, primarily
  ACCEPTING PARTNERS?    Yes
  HOW TO JOIN?    Age Verify

Lvcrative Desires

Indulge Your DesiresWelcome to Lvcrative Desires, the premier 21+ community to Indulge in your Traditional Findom Itch.

  Basics  

  Welcome to Lvcrative Desires   We are a 21+ Financial Control discord server that removes the content creator angle from the current Findom community and recenters focus on BDSM, TPE, and Financial Control. Dominants and submissives are both held to a high degree of etiquette, knowledge, and financial expectations. Lurking is NOT permitted.We prioritize old school financial domination, servitude, and do not have space for content creation at all within in the server. This is to bring focus back to BDSM tenets and safe practice instead of sales and competition. We put priority on having fun with the fetish and working to further a dynamic over sales and cash gathering. We boast a number of fun and new events, host monthly game nights, short term contests, have premium server subscriptions, and more!We accept 25 Dominants into our server and welcome all to apply to join us. Both Dominants and submissives MUST age verify and apply to join our ranks. Once we meet our membership cap, verification and applications will be closed and announced on our Twitter page.

  Applying  

  RIGOROUS   Our application is L O N G but it is long for a reason. The application we have crafted goes over all the basics we feel are needed to properly vet and understand the practices of the Dominants and submissives wanting to join our ranks.  VIBE CHECK   Our application is also a sort of vibe check in and of itself. We only want people to join us that are willing to put in the work to be here. This space is a group effort and if you aren't willing to fill out the long-winded, but necessary, application, you likely aren't a good fit for our community.

  Verification  

  AGE VERIFICATION   Our entire member base is required to age verify with our Staff team. NO EXCEPTIONS! As a kink based community, it's important for us to weed out minors and as such the server is locked down tight, the only things you have access to upon joining is a welcome channel explaining the server, the server rules, a server FAQ, the waiting room, and the verification channel.  WAITING ROOM?   The server waiting room serves to give members a space to ask any lingering questions they might have before opening a ticket, to make the process from applying to entry as smooth and quick as possible for everyone. If you join us and have questions, ask them freely there and staff will be glad to help answer them!

  FAQs  

  Our Events  

Chaos Cord

Embrace ChaosChaosCord is a server specifically to promote yourself as a Dominant, your services, and your work to potential buyers or submissives. We also have a Reddit page, many kink channels, chat, and more!

  Verification  

  AGE VERIFICATION   Our entire member base is required to age verify with our Staff team. NO EXCEPTIONS! As a kink based community, it's important for us to weed out minors and as such the server is locked down tight!  JOINING THE SERVER  When you join, the only things you have access to is a welcome channel with the server rules. Once you agree to those, you can open a ticket to verify to join the server AND our Reddit community as a poster!  REDDIT VERIFYING   To verify to post in our subreddit, you must meet two requirements: 1. Be a Dominant and 2. Age Verify here! That's it! When you open your ticket to age verify and provide the required photos, make sure you also provide your Reddit username and join the subreddit! Once you're age verified, you will also be added to the approved users list!

  Community  

  GENERAL CHATS  As a community focused first on Self Promo, we have few general chats compared to the usual findom based discord server. There are a total of 15 general topic channels ranging from chat to memes to an ootd channel! We do not expect to add more at this time.  PROMOTION  Unlike our general chat channels, we have a PLETHORA of self promo and content channels! There are currently 37 kink channels, 7 specific promotion channels, 2 flash channels (one 3 minute and one 10 minute for flash sales!) voice chats, self introduction channels and more!

  FAQ  

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